The Magic of Halloween Night

Some of my favorite memories live on the streets of my childhood neighborhood on Halloween night. My best friend was by my side, with bags of candy that grew heavier house by house. We raced through the neighborhood with a solid, strategic plan to maximize the amount of candy we received. I can still remember the thrill of wearing a costume I had planned for months, feeling like a movie star under the glow of the street lights. It was pure fun, simple, and bright.

Now I get to watch my kids experience that same magic. I see it in the way they dream up their costumes and talk through every detail, from who they’ll go trick or treating with to which houses are must-stops. Their excitement fills the house as they count down to the big night, just like I once did. Watching them brings back the same mix of excitement and happiness that made Halloween feel so special all those years ago.

Moments like these make me think about all the other families gearing up for Halloween and how powerful community can be when everyone feels included. I am grateful for communities like mine that make space for everyone to join in Halloween night.  In our town Team Nikhil, an incredible organization created to improve the lives of children with multiple disabilities and complex medical needs, partners with the school district's chapter of Best Buddies to pair students with kids who need a little extra support so everyone can trick or treat with confidence. It is a beautiful partnership that brings students together, builds empathy, and helps every child feel included in the excitement of the night. In support of this partnership, one neighborhood has come together to create an inclusive trick-or-treat experience where every child can participate comfortably and happily. Efforts like these make Halloween an amazing night for everyone.

If you are handing out candy this year, consider a few small gestures that can make a big difference. Keep a bowl of non-food treats handy. Offer a quiet thumbs-up instead of a question if a child is nonverbal or shy. Give kids time to choose. Smile at the grownups who are working hard to make the night special for their families. Tiny acts of kindness can turn a moment into a memory.

Halloween reminds me that joy does not have to be complicated. Simple gestures like a neighbor’s friendly wave or being mindful of the type of candy you give out can have a way of anchoring joy and belonging for someone else.

At The Anchored Bloom that is what we celebrate; the little moments that make people feel seen. As we count down to the big night, I hope you find simple, thoughtful pieces in the shop that carry this spirit into Halloween and beyond.

With heart,
Melissa